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Neurodivergent Minds Publications

Books and guides for neurodivergent adults, built on over a decade of real-world coaching practice: practical strategies for burnout, executive functioning and sustainable independence.

The guide series

Four guides, one coherent framework

Practical guides (around 45 pages each) that build on each other: understand your energy, learn to start, learn to recover, and get your space working with you instead of against you.

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1. The Neurodivergent Energy & Overwhelm Guide

Know your energy

The Traffic Light Method™: understand your energy, recognise early signs of overwhelm, and build practical strategies to manage everyday life.

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  • What influences your energy: neurocognitive, mental health, sensory, physical, environment, social
  • The Traffic Light Method™ explained: Green, Amber, Red
  • Signs and strategies for each zone, including when to adapt and when to recover
  • A printable Daily Energy Check-In worksheet
  • A Personal Energy Map to find your own early warning signs and recovery needs
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2. The Neurodivergent Minds 3-Minute Blitz™

Stop planning. Start moving.

A practical activation framework for neurodivergent people who struggle to begin. Not another productivity system: a way to make action easier than avoidance, with cognitive admin, motivation and activation explained kindly.

Read the article: Why Starting Is So Hard for ADHD and Autistic Adults →

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  • Why starting feels impossible, and why it is not laziness
  • The hidden mental workload that sits in front of every task
  • Chapter 2: The 3-Minute Blitz™, a simple activation framework
  • Worked examples for dishes, university work and the shower
  • Chapter 3: Home Blitzes™, small resets for the days when the house feels like too much
  • Green, amber and red menus linked to the Traffic Light Method™
  • Printable worksheets and a one-page summary to keep where you will see it

44 pages · PDF

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3. The Neurodivergent Reset™

Don't write the whole day off

The 10-Minute Reset: a practical recovery framework for the days that completely derail. Four steps to come back into the day without punishing yourself, starting over or writing it off.

Read the article: When Your Day Falls Apart: A Kinder Way Back for ADHD and Autistic Adults →

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  • Why a derailed day turns into a write-off, and why that is not a character flaw
  • The write-off spiral, and how to interrupt it
  • Chapter 2: the 10-Minute Reset™, four steps for when a day has gone sideways
  • Resets for six kinds of derailment: a lost morning, hours on your phone, a missed appointment, after a meltdown or shutdown, a plan change and after masking
  • Green, amber and red Reset menus linked to the Traffic Light Method™
  • Repair messages you can copy, and ways to ask the people around you for help
  • Seven printable worksheets and a one-page summary

51 pages · PDF

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4. Everything Has A Place™

I keep losing things and creating chaos

A practical guide to making everyday life easier to manage: the system problem behind the mess, deciding where things actually live, so chaos doesn't creep back in once the tidying's done. Built around how neurodivergent minds work, with no need for a perfect house.

Read the article: Why Neurodivergent People Keep Losing Things →

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  • Why we keep losing things, and why it is usually a placement problem, not a character flaw
  • Chapter 1: The Hidden Cost of Looking
  • Chapter 2: Everything Has A Place™
  • Chapter 3: Building Broad Homes™
  • Chapter 4: The Launch Pad™
  • Chapter 5: The Five-Minute Evening Reset™, with green, amber and red versions for different energy levels
  • Printable worksheets: an interruption list, essential homes, a broad homes map, a Launch Pad page, evening reset planners and a gentle two-week tracker
  • A one-page summary to keep by the door

43 pages · PDF

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Parent guides

One decision, one download

The guide series above is written for neurodivergent adults navigating their own lives. These guides are different: written for parents and carers, and focused on one specific moment or decision, with practical steps and fillable sheets, rather than the broader framework.

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School-Readiness Checklist

Is my child ready to start school?

A neurodivergent-aware guide for the run-up to starting school and the first term, not just a checklist: practical tips, a script for talking to the school, and a fillable profile sheet to hand the teacher.

Read the article: Is My Neurodivergent Child Ready to Start School? →

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  • A readiness checklist across 5 areas: communication, independence, emotional regulation, social understanding, sensory needs, each with practical tips
  • Practical school-day logistics: the morning routine, the journey, lunch, naming belongings
  • A word-for-word script for talking to the school before day one
  • Questions to ask at a settling-in visit
  • A one-page fillable profile sheet to hand the teacher
  • What's normal in the first few weeks, and when to ask for more support

16 pages · PDF

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Secondary School Transition Guide

Is my child ready for secondary school?

A neurodivergent-aware guide to the move from primary to secondary: what actually changes, a checklist with a practical step for each item, questions for transition days, and a one-page "About me" sheet for the new school.

Read the article: Is My Autistic or ADHD Child Ready for Secondary School? →

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  • What actually changes at secondary, and a rough timeline from Year 6 to the first half-term
  • A 26-point checklist across 6 areas: getting around, sensory needs, break and lunch, asking for help, logistics (including PE changing and storing belongings) and recovery after school, each with a practical step
  • Questions to ask on transition days and open events
  • A step-by-step script for talking to the new school before September
  • A fillable "About me" sheet to hand to the school
  • What's ordinary in the first half-term, and when to ask for more support

18 pages · PDF

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Meltdowns and Shutdowns: A Quick Reference

What do I do when my child melts down?

A parent's quick reference: what's actually happening, a one-minute guide to what helps in the moment, and how to recover and reconnect afterwards, with fillable sheets so the plan exists before you need it.

Read the article: Autistic Meltdown vs Tantrum vs Shutdown: What Is Happening and What Helps →

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  • What a meltdown and a shutdown are, and how they differ from a tantrum
  • Spotting the build-up with a Green / Amber / Red lens, and early signs to watch for
  • A one-minute, 8-step "In the moment" guide, plus a fuller approach to shutdowns and to meltdowns in public, including an exit plan
  • After a meltdown: recovery, reconnecting and looking after yourself
  • Support for brothers and sisters, including spotting when a sibling takes on a caretaking role
  • Three fillable sheets: early signs, a meltdown log, and a calm plan to share with school and carers

18 pages · PDF

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While You Wait

Supporting your child’s mental health when help is slow to arrive

A calm, practical guide for parents waiting on CAMHS, an assessment or any other support: how to use the wait well, what to ask at the GP and at school, how to look after your child (and yourself) at home, and sheets to fill in so you are ready when someone does answer. A practical tool with helplines throughout, not therapy or medical advice.

Read the article: Waiting for CAMHS With an Autistic or ADHD Child →

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  • Understanding the wait: why services are stretched, what a referral can and cannot do, and what you can ask about
  • A one-page picture of what you are seeing, to hand to the GP, school or any service
  • What to say and what to ask at the GP and at school, in plain words
  • Six different lenses for looking at a hard time, so you are not hunting for one right answer
  • Ideas for home: lowering the load, connection without demands, and what tends not to help
  • A one-minute page for the hard moments
  • What to do if you are worried about safety, with helplines
  • Looking after yourself, chasing a referral and preparing for the first appointment
  • Four fillable sheets: a one-page picture, a GP script, a bad day plan and a log of who you have spoken to

19 pages · PDF

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Why Won't My Child Sleep?

The neurodivergent-aware sleep guide for parents

Gentle, practical ways to make bedtime and nights easier: why sleep can be harder for neurodivergent children, a sensory check of the bedroom, a wind-down routine that works, and what to do when your child won't settle or keeps waking.

Read the article: Why Won't My Autistic or ADHD Child Sleep? Gentle Things to Try →

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  • Why sleep can be harder: sensory differences, a busy mind, transitions, anxiety and demand sensitivity
  • A sensory check of the bedroom: light, sound, temperature, bedding and smell
  • Building a predictable, visual wind-down routine
  • Screens, food and the day itself
  • Help for falling asleep, night waking, early waking and bedtime refusal
  • Three fillable sheets: a sleep diary, your bedtime routine, and a note for school and carers
  • When to talk to your GP or health visitor

16 pages · PDF

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Mealtimes and Picky Eating

Calmer mealtimes, with less pressure

A low-pressure approach to mealtimes for neurodivergent children: why eating can be hard, what to do instead of "just one bite", and gentle ways to widen the range of foods at your child's own pace.

Read the article: Picky Eating in Autistic and ADHD Children: Calmer Mealtimes Without Pressure →

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  • Why eating can be hard: texture, smell, sameness, anxiety and more
  • Why pressure backfires, and what to do instead
  • Practical ways to make mealtimes calmer
  • Gently widening the range, including "food chaining" and a "learning plate"
  • Sensory tools (cutlery, seating, texture and temperature), and eating at school, in restaurants, at parties and with family
  • Three fillable sheets: safe foods, patterns, and a mealtime note for school and carers
  • When to talk to your GP or health visitor

15 pages · PDF

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Home Education Starter Guide

Thinking about home educating?

The practical first-steps guide for families considering home education: common myths, real costs, the honest hard parts, and a 30-day action list.

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  • Why families choose home education, and common myths cleared up first
  • The legal side: what we do and don't cover, and where to get reliable legal information (Education Otherwise)
  • What a week can actually look like: structured, unschooling, or hybrid approaches
  • Questions worth sitting with before you start, and what to actually budget for
  • The honest hard parts: parent burnout, identity friction, isolation
  • A practical first-30-days action list

14 pages · PDF

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Home Education Planner

A structure for the week, without a school timetable

An energy-led weekly planner using the Traffic Light Method™, for organising home-educating weeks around a child's actual capacity, not a copied school day.

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  • Why copying the school day doesn't work at home, and what to do instead
  • The Green, Amber, Red planning idea: matching demand to daily capacity
  • Reading the signals correctly: the most common misreadings, and how to avoid them
  • A worked example: what a real filled-in week can look like
  • A simple, reusable daily shape: anchor, core focus, interest time, movement, wind-down
  • Four printable weekly templates to fill in, reused indefinitely after that

13 pages · PDF

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All 8 parent guides

The complete set, in one purchase

129 pages across eight parent guides, for families who want the whole toolkit: starting school, moving up to secondary, meltdowns, waiting for support, sleep, mealtimes and home education.

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  • School-Readiness Checklist
  • Secondary School Transition Guide
  • Meltdowns and Shutdowns: A Quick Reference
  • While You Wait: supporting your child's mental health
  • Why Won't My Child Sleep?
  • Mealtimes and Picky Eating
  • Home Education Starter Guide
  • Home Education Planner
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The flagship book

Belonging, on your own terms

A separate, more reflective piece of work, drawing on over a decade of mentoring experience.

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Connection Without Exhaustion

Solitude vs. loneliness, without the exhausting social advice

Covers solitude vs. loneliness, the Low-Level Social Contact™ method, friendships, dating, living alone, parenthood and community, for neurodivergent adults who find typical social advice exhausting rather than helpful. Practical loneliness resources for this audience are still relatively rare.

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For professionals

A separate "How To" series

Written for practitioners rather than the general reader.

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How to Work with Neurodivergent Students: Primary School

The early years, built on understanding not compliance

Practical classroom strategies for supporting neurodivergent pupils in primary school, from executive functioning to sensory needs, without treating difference as disruption.

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  • Executive function at primary age, and structuring the school day around it
  • Sensory environments in the primary classroom
  • Anxiety and separation anxiety through a neurodivergent lens
  • What to do when a child won't come into school
  • Strengths-based language from the start
  • Working with parents at the school gate
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How to Work with Neurodivergent Students: Secondary School

Inclusive teaching that actually holds under pressure

Synthesises practical classroom strategies, feedback, sensory environments and working with parents into one guide for secondary teachers and support staff.

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  • Executive function as infrastructure, and structuring lessons and instructions around it
  • Feedback that doesn't increase overwhelm
  • Sensory environments in the classroom
  • Anxiety through a neurodivergent lens
  • School refusal, beyond attendance figures
  • Strengths-based records and working with parents
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How to Work with Neurodivergent Students: FE College

More independence, less structure, same student

How to support neurodivergent students through the shift from school-level structure to the greater independence and self-management FE college demands.

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  • Executive function and the independence cliff edge
  • Structuring timetables and transitions in a non-linear day
  • Feedback on coursework and practical assessment
  • Sensory environments in workshops, studios and placements
  • Anxiety, masking and the new-environment effect
  • Working with students directly, not just parents
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How to Work with Neurodivergent Students: University

Supporting students who are expected to self-manage everything

For personal tutors, disability services and academic staff supporting neurodivergent students through university's heavier executive-functioning demands.

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  • Executive function and full independence
  • Structuring independent study in an unstructured week
  • Masking through seminars and the dissertation cliff edge
  • Sensory environments across lecture halls and halls of residence
  • When a student stops attending or withdraws
  • DSA, support services and student autonomy
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How to Work with Neurodivergent People in the Workplace

Practical inclusion, not a policy document

For managers and colleagues: how to adapt communication, workload and environment so neurodivergent employees can do their best work, not just "cope."

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  • Executive function at work, and structuring communication and workload
  • Inclusive management without lowering expectations
  • Feedback and performance reviews
  • Masking at work and burnout
  • What to do when someone disengages, underperforms, or wants to leave
  • Recruitment, disclosure and reasonable adjustments
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How to Be a Home Educator

Ongoing, day-to-day practice

The deeper practical guide for once you're home educating: the dual parent/teacher role, feedback without a classroom, and avoiding burnout.

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  • Executive function for both of you
  • Structuring a week around energy, not a school timetable
  • The home as both living space and learning space
  • Masking, burnout and the deschooling period
  • When home education isn't working right now
  • Working with the wider system
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How to Coach Neurodivergent Adults

The flagship guide for the series

Cognitive Admin applied across a client's whole life, not just work: career, the 3-Minute Blitz method, sleep, social connection, home systems, burnout and the coaching relationship itself.

See what's inside, 13 chapters
  • Cognitive Admin as the core coaching lens
  • Career coaching: finding work that fits the mind
  • The 3-Minute Blitz™ method for getting unstuck
  • Commute and travel, sleep, and food/grocery logistics
  • Everything Has A Place™: systems for belongings and environment
  • Preventing burnout with the Traffic Light Method™
  • When a client is stuck in shame or self-blame, and the coaching relationship itself
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